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Top 10 Do's when dating
a Silver Fox
» Top 10 Don't's
when dating a Silver Fox
» Top 10 topics to avoid when dating
a Silver Fox
(See below) |
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01.
Tech-talk --
Some Silver Foxes who never owned a
dial tone phone are now emailing the
joke of the day to their friends but
go easy on them! If you are a soviet
scientist or experienced PC user, avoid
cryptic computer jargon. It can be a
big obstacle. For many Silver Foxes,
you might as well be speaking Chinese!
Face it, some old boys like things the
old fashioned way for one simple reason:
They usually work! |
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02.
Attire -- Younger
people seem to worry constantly about
their looks and fashion trends. Silver
Foxes usually aren't bothered about
impressing anyone. If a Silver Fox likes
to wear khakis and plaid shirts, LET
HIM!
Especially the retired ones who want
to be comfortable. Don't try to impose
your tastes; many Silver Foxes are more
concerned about comfort than image. |
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03.
Ex-Boyfriends
-- Everyone's
had a life before they meet Mr. Right.
Some men, however, make a point of talking
about their ex's to everyone! Unfortunately,
yesterday's loves can become an uncomfortable
topic of conversation for a new acquaitance.
If you really want to know the Silver
Fox you're dating, don't bring up John,
Jack, Ed, Mike, Ken and Higgins or you
might not see current prospect again. |
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04.
Luggage -- It's
the stuff we carry from other relationships.
Many people are more into tomorrow and
today than into yesterday. Mention only
what's really honest and important.
Be positive and put your pains aside.
The first impression that you make on
anyone is critical. Leave your luggage
at home. Or better yet, get rid of it. |
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05.
Computer games -- So
many of you thirty-somethings believe
that the Nintendo is the greatest invention
besides hot pockets, huh? While computer
games provide a lot of fun for some
of you, they do NOT make a great topic
of conversation when dating a Silver
Fox. Older guys like to feel that the
younger person enjoys adult past times.
Books make a better conversation than
games. Read one! |
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06.
"Opera
is for nerds"--
Fine, you are very proud of your pristine
vinyl collection of The Beatles or Madonna.
Silver Foxes, however, are generally
into mellower music, possibly including
opera and classical music. My advice?
Get a "Classical
Music for Dummies"
cd and shine on your next date! |
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07.
Napoleon
complex -- It
is positive to have defined goals, an
outgoing personality and to be able
to express yourself with a few words.
A lot of men believe that they always
have to get their way because they're
younger or good looking. If you like
the Silver Fox you're about to date,
be flexible, and don't try to have the
last word always. You'll look smart
instead of annoying. |
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08.
Me, me,
me --
Similar
to the Napoleon complex but WORSE,
these types ALWAYS have to tell stories
that revolve around them only. When
dating a Silver Fox show interest by
asking them things that are not too
personal or trivial. Do not talk about
all your wonderful clothes, grand job,
nice wheels or the Simpsons if you want
the Silver Fox to like you! |
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09.
Is that an Armani Shirt? -- I
can't stress enough that Silver Foxes
aren't generally into brands and labels.
If you are a snappy dresser, you'll
make a good impression. If you're all
about brands, some people might think
of you as a "label queen."
That can be a put-off for some Silver
Foxes who love Old Navy shirts. |
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10.
"I want to know everything about
you" --
Guess what? Chances are good that you'll
NEVER know everything there is to know
about your man. If a Silver Fox wants
you to know something, most likely he'll
share it at the right time. Do not pressure
people. Some folks find it difficult
to share very personal things. |
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