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10 Do's when dating a younger Bubba
» Top 10 Don't's when dating a younger
Bubba (See below) |
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Some of these
great and frank tips were sent by Bubba John
Muldoon a very sensible and intelligent guy,
Thank you John! |
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01.
Damn it!, he's 35 seconds late! --
You are by nature
a very punctual and responsible man
(thet's why love daddies) but you get
totally mad if Bubba is one minute late
for a date or dinner. Nowadays many
younger professionals have to fight
traffic and their coworkers before they
come to see you. Be patient and give
him time, it would be nice to welcome
him with a glass of wine instead of
a long face. |
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02.
"In my day..." -- History
is great and your Bubba will yearn to
know about you, however it is a fine
line between sharing and boring. If
walking down memory lane becomes a 10
mile hike and an hour on you're still
talking about coal fires etc... Chances
are your boring the hell out of your
Bubba. |
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03. "CHECK PLEASE" -- DO NOT PAY FOR EVERYTHING!!!!!
This is sure way to get used and thrown
aside by any younger man. A young man
with integrity will see your generosity
as insulting and hurtful as it implies
a lack of respect for his ability to
provide for himself and you. A young
man without integrity will take you
for what he can get and leave when it's
gone. |
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04.
Aren't you happy to see me?? -- Many
lovely Silver Foxes are happily retired
while most of us have to work! Has it
occurred to you that Bubba probably
had a naaaasty day? A fight with his
boss, or worse, he was hit on at the
office by that new secretary bimbo!
Be understanding, after a long day make
him feel comfys and welcome him home
with a nice smile and let him talk,
he'll appreciate it!! |
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05.
"But I LOVE you!!!!" -
A date is not a contract signing over all
rights to freedom that a young man may have.
If a young man gives you his number, it
is not an invitation to phone him continually.
After one date, you do NOT love someone!!!
You are INFATTURATED. Making your Bo feel
appreciated and desired are essential elements
of a happy and long relationship; making
your Bo feel captive, oppressed, stalked
and harassed are good ways of discerning
just how fast he can run in the opposite
direction from you. NO ONE WANTS TO DATE
A DESPERATE NUT-CASE! |
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06. "Roll your
eyes" - If your Bo expresses
a passing interest in things such as Rap,
Video Games etc... Do not roll your eyes,
tut and shake your head like an indulgent
father. You may not be aware of the effort
he's putting into discovering your loves,
such as Opera etc... Your flippant response
to his interests and lack of personal interest
may come across as a belief that his loves
are childish thus making you seem as if
you consider yourself to be superior and
smug. |
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07. "Common Ground" - Relationships
are about compromise and working to find
the common ground, don't assume that the
ground your on should be the common ground
for your Bo also. His views may not be as
weighted with experience as yours but that
doesn't make them less valid. Give his views the same consideration as he gives
yours and weigh up the merits and drawbacks;
NEVER dismiss his opinions out of hand because
he's younger. |
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08.
"It is better to have loved and lost..." - We all have memories of those people who
we allowed into our hearts, who somehow
slipped through our fingers and out of our
lives forever. However your Bo won't enjoy
this story being reiterated time and again
throughout your relationship. This is especially
true if the relationship you mourn took
place before your Bo was born. |
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09. "Once bitten, twice shy"
- Most of us have been hurt in relationships
before, it is important however not to make
your current Bo pay for the mistakes of
others. Just because your Bo may be as young
(or younger) than the ex who hurt you, doesn't
mean they will share the same character
traits. Young men are just as individual
and unique from one another as their older
counterparts. Each one deserves a fresh
start and fair chance. |
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10.
"But other young men do it!" - Stereotypes and preconceptions are the
largest cause of relationships splitting
up. Deal with the reality, not the fantasy.
Some young men want to go out and party
the night away, while others would rather
cuddle up in a big chair with a good book
and a nice glass of wine. Accept his tastes
for what they are and don't try and force
him into your preconception of what you
want him to be. If he loves and respects
you, he will meet you halfway without being forced into it. |
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