Dear Dr. Heart:
I have a much older daddy and I love him, but every time we get in the car he monopolizes the stereo by playing his classical stuff. I don't mind but we never play MY stuff, what can I do?
Manuel, Mexico City
Dear Manuel:
Talk to daddy but understand, you'll never be able to listen to as much rock as you want to specially when driving around with daddy. To some mature folks ANY kind of pop/rock is noise. Say: "Daddy, can we listen to your stuff on the way to the movies and my stuff on the way home?" If daddy loves you he'll compromise.
This advice doesn't apply if you like heavy metal rock or rap!
Dear Dr. Heart:
My boyfriend likes to play with big toys, some of them huge! i don't want to hurt his feelings but some of these are big! What can I do?
Ted, Arlington, VA
Dear Ted:
It is a simple answer, how deep is your love?
Dear Dr. Heart:
I am being harassed by some punks at work, I will not fight with them but I guess they know I am gay and make fag jokes often, what can I do?
Dick, Houston, TX
Dear Dick:
Prejudice never shows any sense. I agree, do not fight with these chimpanzees, you'd be playing their game. Having said that here's what I'd do:
Report the bastards to your supervisor
Find yourself a black belt lesbian and bring her to work as your date
Tell them it feels wonderful to be out on parole, and if all of this fails, join a gang!
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Dear Dr. Heart:
I am in my mid 60's and I am on a fixed income. I have a boyfriend my own age and everytime we go out for dinner he misteriously goes to the bathroom before the bill comes. I am embarassed to talk to him about it. Any ideas?
Mike, Youngstown, OH
Dear Mike:
Some darling dads have terrible habits and that is one of them. Do not be afraid to talk about it specially when this affects your economy.
Before heading out for dinner the next time simply say" Why don't we go to that Italian restaurant we both like? prices are good and WE BOTH CAN AFFORD IT..." Mention in a nice way that the you BOTH are paying for dinner, that will make sure the free rides are over.
Dear Dr. Heart:
I have been with my boyfriend for a long time and I can't stand it when he goes online to "surf" I am afraid one of these days he'll meet someone.
Frank, Ravenna, OH
Dear Frank:
Remember that kids of today are the children of the Internet. What you mention shows a certain insecurity. If your boy is loyal and loving don't try to stop him from being online. It is better to have him at home online than on his own at the local bars. Tell him often that you love him, if he feels loved, he will not want another daddy.
Dear Dr. Heart:
I am an older fellow and like the company of much younger men, makes me feel alive, but I am married. How can I tell a guy I am interested in that I am married? will that scare them away?
Mark, London, UK
Dear Mark:
If you want to scare the bloke away then you'll lie about it! Be honest, everyone appreciates honesty and the truth. You are in a situation that is not impossible, you can have a loving Bubba and a loving Mrs. as long as you do not hurt anyone in the process.
Many men today use the web as the only means to avoid their own reality but remember that people deserve to be treated with respect. Tell the potential boyfriend that you are married and that you cannot do anything about it. If he is truly interested he will enjoy the ride with you as long as it lasts.
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