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  "Computer dating is fine, if you are a computer." :-)
                                                                                                      Rita Mae Brown
 
 
  Hello possums!! The web has made our lives easier and more productive, we can book flights, order groceries, stay in touch with distant relatives and so. Unfortunately there is no police on the Internet, you must exercise good judgement and think twice before you give away any personal information and think very carefully before going on a blind date, you never know who you will meet. The more you know about your date, the better!

Internet dating certainly has opened many doors specially for those who are a little shy in public. The following are our best tips for a successful and safe web date.
 
   
  Top 10 web dating tips. Keep your eyes open!  
   
 
  1. NEVER GIVE AWAY PERSONAL INFORMATION. if you encounter an unsolicited e-mail that asks you for personal or financial information DELETE IT. NEVER PROVIDE ANY INFORMATION UNLESS YOU HAVE CONFIRMED WITH YOUR BANK IF INDEED THEY ARE REQUESTING SUCH INFORMATION. If the email seems to be from your bank, talk to someone by phone.
 
   
 
Nigerian letter 02. The famous Nigerian letter

If you have been contacted by some high ranking official from the Cote D' Ivore asking you if he can put 20,000,000 from someone's state into your account for a day tell them to go to hell!!! Beat them at their own game, read our detailed article in our Safety section. Beat the bastards at their own game!!!
 
   
 
  03. WANT TO DO IT IN MY CAR?

Many older and younger guys who have found the Internet think that everyone is in the same impossible marital fix. Some men just have periods of 2-3 hours while the wife is at her sister's/mother's or shopping and they want to meet a guy big time!!! Doing it in someone's car is ASKING FOR IT!!! If the guy has some sense he'kk rent a room for the two hours!!! Avoid this crazy situation!!!
 
   
 
  04. My wife has gone out for an hour, I have an hour to play!

Let's face it, many guys are desperate, don't be one of those guys!!! Many things in life come to a simple matter of common sense and some felles don't have any. Mention to your potential date or "quick date" that your wife might return at any moment and if that doesn;t bother him it bothers YOU!!
 
   
 
  05. I would love to meet you, but I need cash for the plane ticket

Same thing applies, sadly many men are so lonely and they becoma vulnerable easily. There are many predators out there just waiting for you to say "How much would the plane ticket cost for youto get here?" If a younger or older man has integrity they will pay their way for everything!!
 
   
 
  06. You sound great! What do you do for a living?

You see it in the news every night, someone gets ripped off and abused by cyber assholes who disguise themselves as decent people! If someone says they like you they will ask sensible questions, where you live and what you do for a living do NOT qualify! It is your privacy and if you agree to it you will let him know when it is convenient for YOU.
 
   
 
  07. Please send pictures of you

Think of pictures and places where you've been on the web as digital breadcrumbs, it is very easily to trace someone by looking at where they have been and places they've visited. Sending pictures on the web turns them into public domain material and you NEVER know where your pictures may end up. GIVE THEM ONLY if you're comfortable with the guy.
 
   
 
  08. I can come to see you if you pay for the gas

Unless you agree to pay for someone's company, nothing will stop a guy from asking you for money once they have come to your place. According to police authorities once you have invited someone into your house many of their actions are your responsibility for agreeing to have them and for letting them in.
 
   
 
Roomates   09. "WE CAN MEET AT MY PLACE, BUT MY THREE ROOMATES ARE AT HERE.."

This one is very common nowadays specially for some silver foxes who have a, er, mmm, wife at home (or boyfriend) never go to a stranger's home just like that. Agree to meet at a public place such as Barnes and Noble or Starbucks
 
   
 
  10. Click here, click there

Many robots that will record your actions while working on your PC are called "Agents" or "Spyware". Be careful and DO NOT open emails from sources you do not know. Also, be warned that many dirty websites will install malware on your computer such as tracking cookies without you knowing about it. SPAMMERS AND HACKERS WOULD LOVE YOUR BUSINESS!!!
 
   
   
   
 

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